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Today, I’m doing something a little different…

I thought I’d shake things up and share with you a handful of things that bring me joy—something I’m finding harder to come by these days.

MUSIC (& DANCE)

Gaia Music Collective

I cringe when people ask me what I “do for fun.”

Perhaps it’s that I don’t have a good answer, or that I enjoy my work, and find what I do fun (except for when it’s awful).

Maybe it’s just the wrong question to ask me. After all, walking through my neighborhood is fun. Being with friends is fun. Making plans is fun. Thinking up ideas for future pieces or stories is fun. Watching TV is fun. Making dinner is fun. Snacking is fun. Reading is fun. Like, WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?

The question itself implies that fun must be compartmentalized, that it can exist only outside of one’s daily life, but I’d prefer to find ways to integrate fun throughout my day.

ALL THAT SAID, I have FINALLY found something that I DO FOR FUN….and it’s ONE DAY CHOIR 👇

Tobi LaCroix

I came across this song scrolling through Instagram, and watched it over and over and then learned, minutes later, that he wrote the song about a panic attack. His voice! The melody!

Kaki King

I’ve loved Kaki King for a LONG time, and this song especially.

Master KG—Jerusalema (Ft. Nomcebo)

4 years on, and this is still my favorite song (not my favorite video, though).

Anisha Thai

STILL my favorite dancer, dancing here to my favorite song (above)

PODCAST

Criminal

I’m a die-hard Phoebe Judge fan. You’ve never heard a voice quite like hers. It’s a lullaby. Criminal is just one of her many podcasts (I also love This is Love). This particular episode of Criminal is one of my all time favorites.

BEV!

Yuzu

I don’t drink (anymore). My go-to non-alcoholic drink was a seltzer with bitters with lemon juice, but then my sister-in-law introduced me to this drink, and it’s now my go to. Pour some over ice. You’ll see…

BEAUTY & NATURE

Yoann Bourgeois

There are no words for how beautiful this is.

Bird Cams

Because, some people love bird watching!

Beautiful Bacteria

The invisible world that coalesces to make health and disease can be, well, visually beautiful. (From Nautilus, a magazine I love).

And you? What are YOU loving? Let me know in the comments!

Until next week, I will remain…